{"id":7668,"date":"2026-09-26T22:57:03","date_gmt":"2026-09-26T22:57:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.visiting-angels.co.uk\/cheshire-east\/?p=7668"},"modified":"2026-09-26T23:21:02","modified_gmt":"2026-09-26T23:21:02","slug":"talking-to-parents-about-care","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.visiting-angels.co.uk\/cheshire-east\/talking-to-parents-about-care\/","title":{"rendered":"How to talk to your parent about help at home"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"7668\" class=\"elementor elementor-7668\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2607b910 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"2607b910\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d2e8bff elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d2e8bff\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h3><b>Quick summary<\/b><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do not open with care. Open with the specific thing that worries you, once, and ask what they think. The conversation usually takes more than one attempt, and it is normal for the second to go worse than the first. Aim for a small, concrete next step rather than agreement to the whole idea.<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h3><b>Before you say anything<\/b><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Work out what you are actually worried about, in one sentence.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;I&#8217;m worried about Mum&#8221; is not something anyone can respond to. &#8220;Mum has fallen twice since Easter and was on the floor for an hour the second time&#8221; is. The more specific the concern, the less it sounds like a judgement about them as a person.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It also helps to talk to your brothers and sisters first. A parent who hears three slightly different versions of the worry from three children will usually decide nobody knows what they are talking about.<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h3><b>Choosing the moment<\/b><\/h3><p>\u00a0<\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Not straight after a crisis.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> People dig in when they feel they are being told off.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Not at a family gathering.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> An audience makes backing down harder.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Not late in the day<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> if they tire easily or if memory is part of the picture.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Side by side rather than face to face.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> In the car, on a walk, doing the washing up. It feels less like an interview.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>With time.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Not ten minutes before you need to leave.<\/span><\/li><\/ul><h3><b>How to open it<\/b><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Name the one thing, say how it makes you feel, and then ask a question and stop talking.<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><table><thead><tr><th><p><b>Tends to go badly<\/b><\/p><\/th><th><p><b>Tends to go better<\/b><\/p><\/th><\/tr><\/thead><tbody><tr><td><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;You can&#8217;t cope on your own any more&#8221;<\/span><\/p><\/td><td><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;I noticed the fridge was nearly empty again. How are you finding the shopping?&#8221;<\/span><\/p><\/td><\/tr><tr><td><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;We&#8217;ve been talking and we think you need carers&#8221;<\/span><\/p><\/td><td><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;I worry about you on the stairs at night. What would make that easier?&#8221;<\/span><\/p><\/td><\/tr><tr><td><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;It&#8217;s for your own safety&#8221;<\/span><\/p><\/td><td><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;It would help me stop worrying at work&#8221;<\/span><\/p><\/td><\/tr><tr><td><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Everyone your age has help&#8221;<\/span><\/p><\/td><td><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;What do you think would help, if anything?&#8221;<\/span><\/p><\/td><\/tr><tr><td><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A list of five problems<\/span><\/p><\/td><td><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One problem, one question<\/span><\/p><\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Asking what they think is not a technique. They usually know more about what is difficult than they have let on, and they often have an idea of what would help that nobody has asked them about.<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h3><b>Expect it to take more than one go<\/b><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The first conversation plants the idea. The second is often where the resistance comes out properly, because by then they have had time to think about what it might mean. That can feel like going backwards. It usually is not.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Leave space between attempts. Days rather than hours. Do not keep bringing it up at every visit, because then every visit becomes about it.<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h3><b>Listen for what is underneath<\/b><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When someone says &#8220;I don&#8217;t need help&#8221;, they are often saying something else.<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>&#8220;I&#8217;m frightened this ends in a care home.&#8221;<\/b><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>&#8220;I don&#8217;t want a stranger seeing me like that.&#8221;<\/b><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>&#8220;I can&#8217;t afford it&#8221;<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, or &#8220;I don&#8217;t want to spend your inheritance&#8221;.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>&#8220;I don&#8217;t want to be a burden&#8221;<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, which is a strange reason to refuse help but a very common one.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>&#8220;I&#8217;m not ready to admit this is happening.&#8221;<\/b><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Each of those has a different answer. Help at home is usually what keeps people out of a care home rather than the first step into one. Personal care can come later, starting with shopping or company. Attendance Allowance is not means-tested and is worth \u00a376.70 or \u00a3114.60 a week from April 2026, which changes the money conversation for a lot of families.<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h3><b>Offer choices, not a plan<\/b><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A finished plan presented for approval often invites refusal. Two or three options help to reframe it as a choice.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Would a cleaner on Thursdays or someone to do the big shop be more useful?&#8221; is a question most people can answer. So is &#8220;Would you rather try it for a month and see, or wait until after Christmas?&#8221; Both assume some help, and both leave the decision with them.<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h3><b>What if they have memory problems?<\/b><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The conversation changes shape rather than stopping.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Shorter, simpler, and more often. Focus on today rather than the future. Write down what was agreed so it can be referred back to. And accept that you may need to have the same conversation more than once, without it meaning the previous one failed.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A dementia diagnosis does not automatically mean someone cannot make this decision. Under the Mental Capacity Act 2005, everyone is assumed to have capacity unless it is shown otherwise, and people must be given all practicable help to make decisions for themselves (<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.scie.org.uk\/mca\/introduction\/mental-capacity-act-2005-at-a-glance\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">SCIE<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">). If you are unsure whether they understand what is being decided, raise it with their GP.<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h3><b>If it is not your parent who needs convincing<\/b><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sometimes the resistance comes from the other parent. A husband who has been caring for his wife for years may hear &#8220;you need help&#8221; as &#8220;you are failing&#8221;.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Framing help as support for the carer rather than a replacement usually lands better. A few hours a week so he can get out, see friends or sleep is an easier thing to accept than someone taking over. He is also entitled to a carer&#8217;s assessment from the council in his own right.<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h3><b>Frequently asked questions<\/b><\/h3><p><b>When is the right time to raise it?<\/b><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Earlier than feels comfortable, and when things are calm rather than straight after a fall or an incident. A conversation about a small change now is easier than one about a large change after a crisis.<\/span><\/p><p><b>Should all the family be there?<\/b><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Usually not for the first conversation. Agree the concern between yourselves beforehand, then have one person raise it. A room full of worried children can feel like an ambush.<\/span><\/p><p><b>What if they get angry?<\/b><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stop, and come back to it another day. Anger usually means the subject has hit something real. Pushing on rarely helps, and the next attempt tends to go better if the last one ended calmly.<\/span><\/p><p><b>What if they agree and then change their mind?<\/b><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That is common and not a failure. Find out what specifically went wrong and change that one thing, whether it was the person, the time of day, or the task.<\/span><\/p><p><b>Would it help if someone else raised it?<\/b><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Often, yes. A GP, a friend who already has help, or a grandchild can sometimes say what a son or daughter cannot. It says nothing about you.<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h3><b>About Visiting Angels Cheshire East<\/b><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Visiting Angels Cheshire East provides care at home across Macclesfield, Wilmslow, Knutsford, Congleton, Alsager and the surrounding villages, along with Buxton, Whaley Bridge and the Staffordshire Moorlands towns.<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>You choose your caregiver.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> You meet them before care starts, and if it is not right you say so and we send someone else.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>We start small where that is right.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Shopping, a walk, or company once a week is a perfectly good first step.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>No visit is ever shorter than an hour.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> There is no such thing as a fifteen minute call here.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>You see the same faces.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Our carer turnover is 12 per cent, against a sector figure of 23.7 per cent (<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.skillsforcare.org.uk\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Skills for Care, 2025<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">).<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Carers trained<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> in dementia, Parkinson&#8217;s, stroke recovery and complex care.<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Iain wrote this about the help his mother receives:<\/span><\/p><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Visiting Angels have been a great help to my mother with cleaning, shopping, taking her for walks and by simply keeping her company.&#8221;<\/span><\/i><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Iain Brook, Google review<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h3><b>Not sure what you need yet? Start with a free assessment<\/b><\/h3><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Our free home care assessment is a visit at a time that suits you, with no obligation afterwards. In it we will:<\/span><\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Talk with your parent<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, not about them, about what would actually help.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Suggest a small starting point<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and what it would cost.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Look at the money with you<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and point you towards the funding, benefits and grants you may be entitled to.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Tell you honestly if you do not need us yet<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, or if someone else is a better fit.<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you are working out how to raise it, call us on 01625 720157 and we can talk it through with you first. You can also <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visiting-angels.co.uk\/cheshire-east\/enquire-now\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">send an enquiry<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, and you can see <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.visiting-angels.co.uk\/cheshire-east\/services\/home-care-services\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">what our services cover<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Authored by Dr Niall Jawad, Director, Visiting Angels Cheshire East.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Published 21 September 2026. Last updated 21 September 2026.<\/span><\/p><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This article is general information, not legal or medical advice, and no substitute for advice about an individual&#8217;s circumstances. Questions about someone&#8217;s mental capacity should be discussed with their GP or a social worker. The author is a director of the company and is not acting in a clinical capacity, and Visiting Angels Cheshire East provides personal care at home rather than medical or nursing care. Benefit rates change each April; the figure given was correct at the date of publication. To the fullest extent permitted by law, GB Care at Home Ltd accepts no liability for any loss arising from reliance on this article.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Quick summary Do not open with care. 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