How to maintain self-care after a lung cancer diagnosis

It’s natural to fear being told you have lung cancer, or any form of cancer, in fact. Unfortunately, for some of us, that conversation will happen at some point in our lives and is a daunting prospect. And it’s all too common, as it can be when processing grief or other traumatic information, that people can begin to neglect themselves. This guide – from experienced care specialist, Ian Lintott – is designed to help you maintain self-care following a lung cancer diagnosis, through easy-to-follow steps that both you and your loved ones can work through together.

Commonalities that you shouldn’t be scared of dealing with:

As self-care can often become less of a priority to people after being delivered the news that they have lung cancer, there are some common occurrences that, if addressed and treated with care, can make the experience far less stressful. These can help alleviate common symptoms, address the emotional side-effects, and enable you to understand that you don’t have to “go it alone”.

Relaxation exercises can help

Breathlessness can be a very common and frustrating symptom of lung cancer. What’s more, it can often be somewhat of a vicious cycle, as the more stressed you get, the more breathless you become. Addressing it early and ensuring you’re staying relaxed, breathing in through the nose and out through the mouth, and not exerting too much energy will help. These can be achieved by practicing natural relaxation exercises. Yoga and meditation are two excellent ways of calmly processing and dealing with the mixed emotions that you will most likely be feeling.

Understanding your emotions

Feeling mixed emotions is natural, and it’s often difficult to cope with. You may experience feelings of shock, denial, fear, guilt, avoidance, anger and loneliness, among others. It’s important to remember that these are natural reactions to have and should be addressed, or they may continue or get worse over time. If you think these thoughts might be turning into depression or anxiety, there is help available. And it’s never too late to get the necessary help. More than 4 in 10 people who are diagnosed with lung cancer are aged 75 and older¹, and these feelings of depression and anxiety can manifest from feeling lonely. The value of opting for in-home care during this emotional period is invaluable, even if it’s just for some form of companionship. At Visiting Angels, our team of qualified carers can pop in on a regular basis, supporting with everything from household chores through to more complex care. And because we strive to have the same carer making each visit, our clients feel able to share their thoughts and feelings with someone who they see as a trusted confidant.

Opening a dialogue

With this in mind, one of the most important pieces of advice for those with lung cancer is to not be afraid of opening a dialogue. Informing medical professionals, or even friends or family how you’re feeling is one of the first and most important steps in managing and dealing with your diagnosis. At Visiting Angels, we often care for clients that have only just been delivered the sad news of a diagnosis and so our services offer a form of companionship that might bring them some small sense of relief – in fact, we’re currently caring for a client who has just been diagnosed. In his case, we’ve found that talking is a great healer of emotional trauma. Having honest conversations can help you process news such as this, as well as reminding you that you are not alone. In the same respect as companionship in these situations, having someone to talk to in a safe, secure environment, whatever it’s about, can provide clarity, a distraction and some respite.

Processing trauma and the effect it can have on relationships

Allowing negative emotions to take over may start to affect your relationships with those you’re closest to. Being open and honest about how you feel and what your family and friends can do to help you may put others at ease, as it can be hard for those around you to fully understand what you’re going through. But don’t feel shy about telling people that you need some time to yourself, if that’s what you need, as self-reflection and personal time is as important as sharing in these situations.

Ian summarises, “Mental health and maintaining calm and wellbeing is as important as your physical health in situations such as these. It’s all too easy to face a diagnosis and give up, as for so many people it can feel like the end. But that doesn’t have to be the case, and maintaining your quality of life and independence for as long as possible is a worthwhile aim. At Visiting Angels, we’re always asked how we can support vulnerable members of our community. People often think our services are only used when someone has a physical need, but they actually consist of much more than that – and our service comes with companionship as standard.

“We’re passionate about ensuring that our Quality at Home Care services help people with a range of needs. We nurture the relationship between the carer and client to a stage where they feel a sense of companionship, positively impacting mental health and ultimately helping them manage their diagnosis and difficult situation more positively. With industry leading staff retention, our clients can choose their caregiver, meaning that achieving companionship is easier. This same retention means we can provide specialist training to our already highly-trained carers to support with complicated conditions.”

 

For more information on Visiting Angels range of in-home care support services, please visit https://www.visiting-angels.co.uk/cambridgeshire/ or call the team on 01223 455945.

 

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